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There are two groups of people I wish to address with this page. Those that say & those that hear the words ...

"You need to fix ..."

For those of you who tell folks that.

Mind  your own business 

&
Fix yourself!
You are not seeing them, you are seeing yourself. What you see in them is what you need to fix in yourself.

          Or "enlightened" you think you are ... when you judge someone, you are not being "enlightened"! And that is exactly what you are doing wihen you tell  someone " you need to fix ...." some aspect of themselves.

For those of you who are told,
"Fix yourself!"

Remember;

Ignore other people's opinions of you.

Work ONLY on what triggers you.

If being told you needed "fixed" bothered you.

The problem is  you need to let go of other people's opinons.

Why do they do it?
Because misery loves company.

You can't heal them or

learn their lessons for them. 
Only they can do that.
Let it go.

Learn to trust yourself. 
No one knows you like you do. 

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